A lot is being talked about lately regarding consciousness, a function of daily life that seems almost mystical when you try to break down what is is, where it comes from, and if it survives after death.
As a psychic myself, people often ask me, do you ever utilize a psychic's input? Well, I will tell you because I'm so subjective to myself, I don't trust any psychic input I get in relation to my own situation because there is a conflicting environment - my own self concepts, wishes and desires, fears and apprehension that make it impossible to give it merit. So, who have I found that could actually read me, a person with a fair amount of obstacles?
I have a pretty strong opinion about proper conduct for psychics.
This is because I work my skills and I take it very seriously. I do not make a living at psychic readings, but that does not stop me from realizing the value of psychics and the cautions consumers must have. If I do a reading for a friend or acquaintance, I take it as a great responsibility. Here's my advice - Every wording is critical.
And you don't just info dump on people and then walk away.
You are 50% intuitive, 50% counselor.
You give info and insight and then you counsel how to absorb that info and frame it.
You don't reveal something about the person and then await a pat on the back, you let them know you see these things about them and the struggles inside, that you can point out examples that show their efficacy as a human trying to do the right thing.
Reaffirm their soul.
They should leave a reading feeling they truly saw their own soul mirrored.
I part company with many supposed psychics who use questions and baiting, reading a client's expressions to work more as a mentalist than a true psychic. I personally prefer to not see the person, not hear them, just rattle off all that I obtain without any nuance from the person that might lead me following info down a dead-end path. There are many ways a psychic can bait a client. Here is an example: "You have been feeling guilty about something that you need to let go."(If this doesn't apply to 80% of the public, I don't know what does. It is a "fortune cookie" broad sweeping bait) "You lost someone close to you recently." (pretty good assumption, as the majority of people seeking psychics either lost a job, lost a relationship or lost a loved one). "You said your mother died when you were young. Were you close?" (why not let the client just do the read, huh?) "Your father sends his love and wants you to know he's very proud of you." (who doesn't want that message?) My attitude toward paying for a psychic's services is that it can be a very soul-satisfying one when there are proper boundaries on both sides. I have long considered the role of "intuitive counsel" rather than the culturally accepted "psychic reading" role as a potential avenue I might like to explore some day, as I offer such things for friends regularly with great satisfaction. An ideal situation is a psychic who is part intuitive, part reframing, and part life coach. Setting the boundaries with the client for future relationships is key and letting them know what to expect, that you will not make their decisions, push for information out of your ability to obtain, or speak for the dead if you are not experienced in mediumship. The expectations between psychic and client can be quite realistic and unbelievably fulfilling when coming from a place of compassion. One thing true psychics have in our favor is that our compassion is pretty extensive, as we know every way humans can experience this physical realm and realize none of them are right or wrong, simply personal evolution. The reason psychics are so very sought after by people is the same reason that counselors are helpful, one feels that they are being understood and heard by a compassionate and wise person. This is an important relationship for both the client and the psychic, when it is done with ethics, a goal for independence, and enlightenment.
Okay, y'all. I know you've been wondering what an Autumnforest psychic read is like. Well, Julie and I finally filmed one. I told her many months ago that I was interested in videotaping a psychic read so folks could see how it goes. She had forgotten. I had forgotten. But, as she left for the trip this past weekend, Julie remembered and brought an item. The team was sitting around the table in our huge schoolroom that we were staying in, hanging out and having deep philosophical paranormal conversations, when she pulled out this doorknob and said, "read it." I did like I always do during a read, ask her to remain quiet while I say everything I can get and I look away, focusing my eyes around until I find the spot in space where I seem to hone in on the item. It's hard to describe that process, but as I read the doorknob, I held it in my reading hand (left) and looked off to the lower right away from Julie and spoke. I never realized until seeing this, how much my right hand moves as I describe the reading. It seems to help me sift. After my read, you will hear Julie commenting on all the things I said.
Our book, "Abandoned Places: Abandoned Memories (Desert Edition)" is on Kindle and Nook. Remember that Kindle allows for downloading to your PC, Droid, IPAD or other device.
Julie and I had a fantastic idea for this book--photograph 12 abandoned sites in the Arizona Desert and I would do one psychic read from each location, bringing them to life again with a story from the past. It makes one realize that everywhere you have been, everything you have touched has left an essence to be picked up by the right receiver. We hope to do more versions of this book in the future because it was so rewarding to write and put together.