For weeks after his death, I felt my older brother over my right shoulder. Strangely, when I read people's deceased loved ones, they are behind the person's right shoulder. If they are alive, they are over their left shoulder. I've been asked before how to tell if your deceased loved one is nearby. My answer is simple -
This is the most simple way I know of to feel and connect:
Sit in a quiet room alone.
Place your left hand on your right shoulder.
Turn your head to look over your right shoulder.
You may feel as if someone just stepped up to you.
You will recognize the energy.
Tell them what you need.
You will get an answer. It may not be in words, but in knowledge and your entire body will react.
Do not be surprised if you cry.