(okay, the picture isn't a human and ghost doing it, but damn! Isn't Sawyer fine?)
Oh yeah, a favorite subject. I know it is because people love to ask me about this one.
Hell, I love to contemplate it.
Noncorporeal conditions aside, the logistics of ghost sex is a tough one. A spirit certainly has no throbbing blood stream, hormones, erections, lubrication or any other arousal precursors. So, why the hell do they want to have sex?
But, is sex really about the physical release or that feeling that release gives you—that “little death” that makes you feel like the first hill of the world's tallest rollercoaster? You go your entire day thinking about bills, clocks, deadlines, bosses, coworkers, siblings, parents, spouses, children, taxes, debt, weight, but that one moment of climax—that's primal, elemental, as basic as it gets. It is not cerebral. It is spiritual. So, why not consider sex with ghosts as a possibility? It is, after all, not the usual state of being we spent 99.9% of our day in—the analytical practical side.
Sleep state is when a ghost would come to you; when your brain states are not in the analytical task-oriented state, but in the spiritual state. Every night you enter dream states, doing things, being with people, performing tasks you never do in your physical state. You could not be a better partner for a spirit form than when you are in your spiritual state.
So would spirit sex be only spiritual?
No, it would also be physical.
The human body enters an aroused state in the very early mornings hours. If you wake up from an aroused dream, I can almost guarantee you, it's after 2 am, more often near 5-7 am. I have awakened in the middle of climax several times and my hands were no where near my nether parts. My hips were rocking, I was crying out having a full-blow awesome orgasm. Knowing the mechanics of a woman's body and the conditions it takes for climax, how is it possible to get one without physical contact?
Next time you wake up with a raging hard-on or slick panties, you might get a smile on your face if you consider that you just had spiritual stimulation. Was it a ghost? Who knows? If you want me to blow your mind, I'll toss out this theory—what if it was with another sleeper you met in the dream world? Talk about a one-night stand!