Thursday, January 27, 2011

The answer is "yes" there is somebody!

So, people bug me and wonder--you can't be divorced and never dating and having your Friday nights always open. Well, the truth is, I am in a relationship. I haven't shared it because it's a distance relationship and kind of a weird thing to explain because it's true--I still have not been on a date since high school and my Friday nights are always open, but I am in a relationship.

What caught my attention? Well, my first requirement was a man who was easygoing, could laugh, was affectionate, loved horror, was creative, and shows a track record of putting family first.

So, yeah, my Friday nights are still open and I'm still doing Lonely on a Friday night because there's nothing in the world more lonely than having a Friday night open and knowing it can't be with the one you want.

Mystery solved.

26 comments:

  1. I feel a disturbance in the force - as though a million souls cried out in anguish.

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  2. Sucio;
    You are a dear. You can't expect a prize like me to be on the shelf too long, hmm?

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  3. I tried doing the long distance thing, but I have a hard enough time keeping a regular relationship.

    Good luck to you!

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  4. Thanks Vapor. I get the feeling you're a young-un. It is harder for young ones to be patient. When you're older, you just want to be sure. It's good to do it in stages.

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  5. I'm glad you've found someone. Finding some who's a good fit for you is tough - Lord knows I'm still looking. I'm happy for ya, though. :D

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  6. Thanks, HN. I think you just need do what I did and ask yourself what kind of person you want to spend your time with so much that you find everything is better with her beside you. She should be the first person you want to tell about news, the last person you want to say goodnight to and at times you should finish each other's punchlines because you really get each other.

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  7. How's Dale taking this?

    Couple of us should probably take him for a gents night out.

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  8. Pangs;
    Oh, he knows. I think he approves, but that's probably because my attention is distracted and he can get away with more. Still, he has been writing a post and hiding it from me with a password, so one never knows what he's thinking until it's posted.

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  9. Dating is good.Ldrs can be difficult and ultimately one person will have to move to the other or they will ultimately break up.

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  10. True Echo. It's all about the greater good. It should benefit both people and they should both believe they're better together in one place than separate in two.

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  11. LG;
    I seriously am. I admit to being an optimist and a perky person no matter what, but it's amazing how brave you are about life when someone believes in you.

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  12. I know from experience that distance relationships don't really last, hope you the best though.

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  13. It's me she's seeing.
    As if anyone's going to believe what I say.
    Love you Autumnforest .
    ;-)

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  14. Wow, a public declaration?
    This must be the real deal then!

    So happy for you and your lucky man!

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  15. Thank y'all. I am blushing, Max. I love you too, you talented devil.

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  16. *smiles for you* We all deserve happiness.

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  17. We do, MM! Both of us are wonderful people and when you put two wonderful people together--you get a solar flare.

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  18. Hee Hee...I knew this too! So very happy for them!

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  19. Sisters share secrets, including who they have crushes on.

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  20. I knew it!
    I knew it!
    I strongly suspected somethin' was going on with that pointy tail guy.
    Good Luck to ya both!

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  21. Cindi;
    Did it show? He is the finest devil in all the world.

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  22. yep! sometime I'll go back and find the post(s) were it occurred to me. :D

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